Landing one-night stands online or ir in real-life near you, and getting laid sometimes looks like a rocket science, but it is not! If you don’t have too much luck with females, common problem can be in you not in them. In other words: you don’t participate female population on right way, or you don’t have approach, or what is most common problem you don’t have self-confidence. There is an un-official rule called 10/90 and it says that about 20% of men have sex with 90% of women, or even more close: 1 of 10 man you know had sex with 10 or 20 or even more girls and women in his life, and other 9 probably had few sexual partners in their ife. So what that mean to as, and how to step into those 10%, who are “irresistible” to females? How to get laid in college, at work, vacation, business trip, when you go out, how to easy land one night stand any time and anywhere?
Reading will take you only few minutes, but until you reading keep in mind those few facts:
Everybody can land one night stand and get laid
You can land one night stand and get laid
Girls and Women who want same “thing” as you, are around you all the time
You can get laid whenever you want, only problem can be if you don’t believe that you can!
Why “The”? Because it is very popular those days, actually for past 10-15 years, and can be used for landing one night stands locally or in advance (so called piping) on places where you will be in next few days or weeks. Got it? For example You know that you are going to travel somewhere within next X days and will stay there Y days, so why you shouldn’t find some girl from that city or place and make “deal” before you arrive. Especially if you are don’t have too much time to going out or because of any other reason. Or, for example, why meeting just one girl if you are stay few days on business trip?
This is most popular and easiest way to get laid, it is simple, you can pick partner you like more or less and it is pretty much safe. Most important thing is picking right adult, so called “hookup” site that works. Some sites are full of fake profiles, some are for real dating not sex-dating and some are free to use, what means that meany people go there to full around and make more than one fake profile, often males make female profiles and that resulting in wasting your time.
So, avoid free adult dating sites and use paid sites, when someone on the other side pay $20, $30 or $50 membership fee, will not fake own profile and full around, people do such things on free adult dating sites, but no on paid. Of course, there are few free sites where you can get laid and land some one-night stands, but those sites are dating sites. Everything is going much "slower", and girls and women on those sites are there with another intention like dating, romance even marriage, or finding a soul mate. You can try any of popular online dating sites, but chances to get some casual sex are much better on sites focused on people with that intention, very simple :)
Here you will find fresh and updated (2-3 times monthly) list of tested sites for meeting adults and landing some hookups. If you are looking for dating, or love, then skip this and go to Plenty of Fish or some other regular dating (not hookup) site.
Interesting hookup solution, you don't need to open accunt, your Facebook can bes used to login, but it is descreet so nobody can see that you are using First Meet, highly recomanded.
Fresh, new, most functionality is free, a lot of new people/persons coming here and "shinny" looking for new sex partners. A lot of them are in relationships even marriages but another half is single, so you can find something for everybody taste :) Also significant number of couples are trying to find other couples or singles there, highly recommended for now!
Promising, almost no fake profiles, for now let say, that it has huge members base 4/10 are females 6/10 are males so chances for landing one night stands are really high
Get Laid on Vacation
Getting laid on vacations is most simple, and that is reason why ‘everything else’ goes to one section and getting sex on vacation whole paragraph itself.
Landing one night stand on vacations, especially summer vacations, is very easy because of simple reason: many free and married women come with same goal: to have some sex. Also all that sun, alcohol and fun is very stimulating environment even with those who are not there only for sex :)
All you need to do in such situation is to look what others do, so if there is popular night club, or beach party, then just go there. When you identify guys that girls are interested for, try to look like they look, try to behave like they do. On vacations women and girls lowering criteria when choosing partner compared to places where they are coming from. Reason is very simple, it is called “what happened in Vegas stays in Vegas”. In such situation it is almost impossible to NOT get laid.
Keep in mind that vacations and seminars are best places for having a lot of casual sex in short time with various partners. Simply everybody is there, not going to job, a lot of free time and of course in those circumstances both males and females want some sex.
Get laid in high school
There small difference in approaching girls in high school and approaching and getting laid college so here are few important things to know: in high school you are younger, girls are younger, nobody has notification experience and everything should be slow, without alcohol or any other things. You need to pay more attention to girls, listen them, try to bi nice until she give you a signal that she wants to get laid with you. Sometime she will ask you to come at her place, sometime she will ask you to ask her at your place, sometime she will just tell you "I want you!". Most important in this ages to not rush, be interesting guy, provocative but not pushing one. When she gives you clear signal than take action.
What is important, especially in those ages, is to avoid being "friend zoned". That means if you end there, you will never get laid with that girl. So when a girl starts to talk you about her friends and family and other intimate things means she looks at you as "friend zone material", to that just ignore such talks, go to another topic and don't say anything about your family, friends, problems, etc. If you behave in that way you have much higher chances to have sex with her, maybe relationship to, but remember: if you fail into the friend zone, there is no escape from there.
Get laid in college
Getting Laid in college opposite than high school you should be faster and you need to be more direct. Why? in college opposite than high school you should be faster and you need to be more direct. Why? Reason is simple: both you and girls have more experience, nobody is not virgin, when you see each to another you both know would you that night be in same bed or not, college is time for experimenting, pleasures and of course getting laid :)
And never forget protection!
College is a time of going out, parties, traveling and all those stuff, in other words on of best periods of life, which also can include a lot of casual sex with various partners, experimenting, even some kinky stuff like threesomes or group sex. At college chances for great sexual life are great, if you are the active type of guy. That means that you just need to go out where others go and on that way to make chance to have sex. Drinking is always involved in those days, so a bit of alcohol is your friend. Also, as in "Get Laid in High School" paragraph: avoid failing into friend zone!
Get laid using Tinder
Make good photos, what you write about your self it is much less important than what girls see, so use all those nice filters and other stuff to make you look better that fact will dramatically increase chances to get sex.
Play on a large scale: message at least 50-100 chick near you every day. If not going the focus on fatties and less attractive girls.
When you made conversation with a girl, try to not pushing her but also try to arrange meeting same night, that is very important because if you can't attract her to get laid with you tonight somebody another will...
Bonus tip: most important thing is CONFIDENCE!
Keep in mind: what most attractive to women is male confidence, so no matter how she look and how do you feel about that, you must be cool, slowly, confident, she must see that you know what you are doing, no matter if you do not really know what you are doing, you must control your emotions and look cool as ice berg. I know that you hear that thousand times, but I also hear your question: "ok, but how to look confident?". I am always giving simple advice: no matter how you want some girl, or how desperately you want to have sex with her, convince your self that you don't care. The best way is to say to yourself "ok, I know I will NOT bang this girl, but I can use her for practicing". Maybe this sentence sounds rude, but convince your self that you will not have her. From that starting point, you will be much more relaxed. When you are relaxed you will talk and behave more relaxed. When you are in front of a girl or in online communication relaxed your chances to have sex with her are much higher. That is confidence. After some time when you see that this really works, you will be even more confident and so on.
Other places and ways to land One Night Stand
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Get Laid at Coachella
We received for past few years at least 10 messages with the question: how I can get laid at Coachella. It was cute and interesting and made us laugh, so we added that answer. Coachella is like any other festival of that type or any other festival at all. A lot of boys and girls at the same place and small space. That means that chances for sex are very very high. When we add a bit (or more) alcohol to the game it could be perfect. A lot of spontaneous situations where you can easily make new "friendships". All festivals are a great place because people get there to have some fun. A man just needs to be direct, because on such events there is no much time, so after an initial conversation, it is OK to ask: "let's go somewhere?". If she is not interested proceed to another girl. In simple words: chances to get laid on Coachella (or any other festival) is huge.
Be careful and always use condom!
Always, no matter are you meeting someone online or on in real-life, be aware, take care about protection! So much STDs including HIV around there. Don't trust people if they say you "I am OK", many males and females already have some kind of virus but still don't know, probably nobody (normal) wouldn't transmit any decease intentionally, but many people would do didn't knowing they have some kind of STD. So once again: no mater are you male or female, take condoms with you when go to one night stand! Again: never forget protection!
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M.T.
Thanks for this, especially for advice related to ONLINE and VACATION, after changing my approach, last business trip to LA was everything except business :) :) :) Big thanks!
C.N.
Interesting and useful, very glad that found this free guide, I will try to change something in my sexual life, which is very poor to be honest…
A.J.
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T.T.
Shortest but best "online hookup" guide that I read and I read a lot of them. I think that part about confidence when comes to sex, dating, relationship or anything else with women is definitely a most important part.